People Speak

Insight

2010-01-07T08:45:00.002-05:00

I want to hear from some of the men out here in the world.... Why is it that so many woman have to teach men how to do the basic things... Like take out the trash or clean the house or open the car door. Do you guys feel that this something that woman shouldnt want these days like is shivery dead?

What happen to people like my father who took care of everything in the home. I mean cut the

grass fixed the cars, maintaned the home. Just all of these things, and I feel today that this is

something hard to find in BLACK men. I see it in other cultures but somewhere we are out of

the loop.

Swingers

2009-05-12T11:53:00.002-04:00

Question?

If you and your husband just wanna hit the swingers club just.... to see whats going on but in the process somebody asking your better half if they wanna join in would you be mad if he or she accepted the offer?

Titles

2009-05-12T11:47:00.003-04:00

I was talking with my friend the other day and he stated that having a title is overrated. Whats the point of being boyfriend,girlfriend, nobody really believe in that stuff any more anyway. I was like wow.... so do you think that the older we become we look at things in a different light... I mean I do feel funny sometimes saying this is my boyfriend so so an so.... Are we all really just dating until we have ring?

What did your parents tell you about sex?

2009-04-14T09:11:00.000-04:00

How did you parents talk to you about having sex?

Teens and Vibrators

2009-04-14T09:08:00.000-04:00

What age is good for a parent to talk w/their child about self masterbation and vibrators? There has been a lot of talk on news and Oprah that 13 is a good age to introduce girls.

Should the man pay for everything

2009-04-09T10:17:00.002-04:00

My mother stated that she blames the women of today for the way man act and treate woman.... She told me that there should never be time when in your courtship that you should pay for anything. If the man wants to date you or take you out he needs to have the means to do so..

It shouldnt be oh ill pay this time or whatever... I so disagree

Man dont wanna get married

2009-04-09T10:00:00.002-04:00

Why do men want to kids and live with you but dont want to be married. Whats up with that?

Should people change you

2009-04-09T08:47:00.002-04:00

If people never give you back in return what you dish out should you give your givien spirit.... Or do you just say GOD will bless me in other ways

Teaching Fellas how to prevent women stalkers

2009-04-08T08:07:00.001-04:00

1. Fellas if you do it at her house. Fight the urge to FALL ASLEEP after you get a good one. Give her the homegirl pat on her back, kiss on the cheek and BOUNCE. If at your house, be sure to undress her in one spot. No need spending 20 mins looking for undies wrapped in covers. Advise her to text you when she gets home.

Teachable moment: If the sex was good and your feeling sensitive, you rejected her; she will not want to kiss you. One less stalker in your life

2. Don't.. I mean NEVER ask HOW WAS IT. If she ask how was it. Say"It was decent". Don't call send a one word text "sup"

Teachable moment: You are teaching her not to call at will and your not her man.

3. If she says "I don't normally do this" give her the dry "OK". If she ask "Do you think i'm a hoe" Response, "No, I didn't pay for you"

Teachable moment: If she feels bad it her self esteem not yours. Don't buy into the because your special crap.

Equally Yoked

2009-04-08T07:49:00.002-04:00

I was talking with my sister the other day, and she made a stated that when you date you should be equally yoked financially... Meaning if you have a house he needs to have a house if you have a car that person needs to have a car if you make this amount of money then he needs to make something close to that amount. Because if he doesnt he will never feel like man, money will always be a issue. Please tell me how you guys feel about the comment

Name a Song that describe your life

2009-04-08T07:47:00.001-04:00

My Friend asked me this question the other day thought it would be something fun to think about

(Please post the lyrics)

Would you force your son's baby mother to have a DNA test?

2009-04-07T08:59:00.001-04:00

If you knew your teenage son was having unprotected sex with multiple girls. If one of the girls got pregnant would you(parent)force the girl to have a DNA test?

HAPPY FRIDAY !

2009-04-03T09:42:00.001-04:00

Let's talk about anything.

What do you think about Vick coming home and working construction?

What do you think about the mother that tried to drug her daughter, so the mothers BF could get her pregnant?

What do you think about what you thing about? LOL

IS GOD WORKING ON YOU?

2009-04-03T09:41:00.001-04:00

Some people state they are single because GOD is still working on them. Some are unable to find someone to keep them interested. Others refuse to settle.

My theory, alot of us say GOD is working on me. However some don't have the patience to allow GOD to work in and through them. They continue to follow the same or similar paths, get frustrated and discourage when the results are the SAME. They shed a few tears listen to their favorite HEALING gospel song and continue the cycle all over again.

The road less travelled appears to be the hardest route. Yet it can be the most rewarding one. However, we are afraid of change because it may mean; you will not have a SO for a peroid of time, might have give up all that is familar to you and really TRUST GOD. At time we spend more time running from ourselves instead of running to the FATHER.

I remember the hardest thing in my LIFE was to let go of the person I was with for almost 17 years. I knew it was a toxic relationship but it was familar and all I knew at that time. Once I stepped out on faith and let it go in my heart Blessings began to flow. Once you let go of the toxins in your life and seek the kingdom of GOD, that heavy load you carry at times will feel a million pounds lighter. You might have compromise but not settle have on your "standards".

Matthew 6:33
"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness;and all these things shall be added unto you."

How is GOD working on you?
Are you seeking his kingdom or just WAITING at home for GOD to deliver the things you are praying for (Spouse,house,etc..)?
Do you have the COURAGE to make the CHANGE required to have the LIFE you're PRAYING for?
What brings you peace?

You GO to BED when I GO to BED!!!

2009-04-02T12:20:00.002-04:00

I was listening to Mike Basiden yesterday and he was talking about people who MAKE their mate go to bed(not sex) when they go to bed.

A friend says her husband goes to bed at 9pm and she has to go to bed also.

What are your thoughts?
What are your thoughts about person that requires their spouse/BF/GF to go bed with them?
What are your thoughts about the person that listens/follows and go to bed?

Are you will will to carry his/her debt?

2009-04-01T01:24:00.000-04:00

You haved worked HARD for what you have. Over the years, you've bought and paid for a few cars(s), have your own home and you're rewarded with a good FICO score of 700 PLUS for your efforts.

You've met someone and they LOOK great, SOUND great and the two of you are REALLY vibing. You've been dating exclusively for a couple of months now, ... and then one night, the topic turns to fiscal responsibility. He/She tells you "Well, I've had a couple of car repos, I've got maybe $10k in bad credit card debt, and some other shyt... so my FICO score is around 400... But, if we get married, I can change all of that!"

So, would you take that step down that aisle or not?

Who taught you about SEX?

2009-04-01T01:21:00.002-04:00

was listening to Micheal B. discussion about promiscuous teens today. I also thought about Steve Harvey's book telling women to adopt a 90 day rule. I hear woman say they LEARNED so much from the book. I wonder are the women Steve is talking about, promiscous teens who didn't learn. If that's the case, most women still don't understand and "appreciate" what it means to share their body.

These questions came to mind..
Men/women who taught you about sex? (ex porn, friends, BF/GF, parents..etc)
When did you learn and/or have you learned to appreciate "IT" and not give your body away like you're sharing M&Ms?
What advice would you pass on to teens today who are considering or engaging in sex?

note:For those that say don't do it! Let's keep it real.. "Don't do it.. only works for a small percentage"

FYI: If this has been discussed before pass it by...

What did you think of the President's Speech

2009-03-25T09:44:00.000-04:00

What did you think of the President's Speech?

What would you do?

2009-03-25T09:43:00.001-04:00

What would you do if you can home and saw your significant other have sex with someone?

First Crush

2009-03-24T11:36:00.001-04:00

Do you remember your first crush? Who was it. TV, friend a teacher....

Purpose Driven life

2009-03-23T08:40:00.002-04:00

Do you know what's your purpose in life?

Have you identified your God Given talent or gift?

Describe your SOUL MATE.

2009-03-23T08:36:00.003-04:00

If you had one wish. To get and keep the person of your dreams decribe this person (Physical, mental, etc)

I thought about this listening to Jennifer Hudson's song "God send me an Angel"

Give me your advice

2009-03-20T13:55:00.002-04:00

My friend is sort if dating this woman he is very intersted in.

However they come from similar but different backgrounds. They are at different stages in their lives. She is successful and he isn't. She likes Jazz and he like rap..etc She wants to stick in there but isn't sure if they are compatible because of small things like this.

What are your thoughts?

Finish the sentence.. Life is worth living....

2009-03-20T13:54:00.001-04:00

Finish the sentence.. Life is worth living....

Do you want or need a mate?

2009-03-19T10:02:00.002-04:00

Do you feel yourself of people want or need a mate

Want - I can do without a SO

Need - I need an SO

What makes a man/woman fall in love and stay in love

2009-03-19T10:01:00.000-04:00

What makes a man/woman fall in love and stay in love?

Can anyone actually or in their OPINION answer this?

Clingy or I enjoy your conversation?

2009-03-17T09:46:00.004-04:00

Whats the difference between a clingy person and someone that enjoys spending time with you?

How do you leave a person that loves you?

2009-03-17T09:46:00.001-04:00

How do you walk away when you have fallen in love and the other person has not?

What have you done to get your way?

2009-03-17T09:43:00.000-04:00

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE SILLY AND MISCHEVIOUS/PLAYFUL THINGS YOU DID IN UR RELATIONSHIPS TO HAVE UR OWN WAY JUST FOR FUN?

Yelp!!!!!!!!

2009-03-16T12:40:00.002-04:00

I just dont have anything else to do today....... so you guys should start writing on this site its awesome......... www.yelp.com

Compatibility

2009-03-16T08:13:00.002-04:00

How important is it to have things in common with whom your dating? For instants if your a tech greek should they be one also or should they be your opposite?

I was just people watching today....

2009-03-12T11:43:00.002-04:00

What are you thoughts about a 35 year old man still riding around listening to rap music wearing sneakers? At what point to you grow up, I mean do these people have corp jobs or what I mean really......

Thoughtful or a Bug-a-Boo

2009-02-27T08:51:00.002-05:00

When your interested in someone and lets say you have been talking for a couple of weeks, how often should you call? Should call when you get the urge or just wait for that person to call you. Does me calling say I want you and i'm available and thinking of you? Does me waiting for you to call me say i'm not too available? What are your thoughts.

What does your desires say about you?

2009-02-25T14:18:00.001-05:00

What do your desires sexual, emotional etc say about you?

Makes me want to holla !!!

2009-02-25T09:51:00.002-05:00

I am happy black people and the nation have come together for President Obama and vigoriously going after any publications that display negative depictions of the President. I have received several emails to sign a petition against the Post Newspaper.

However, I want to holla, because when are we going to stand together against things that are affecting our lively hood. How about sending petitions to address GM asking for our tax dollars yet anticipating shutting down their 5 US factories. Take my money and take my job WTH. What about elected officials choosing to accept some or none of the stimulus money. Where are the petitions for that. What about the shows on VH1 and MTV that provide brainless tasteless shows. Rap music and BET was attacked causing them to change some of their programming.

When are we going to stand together for global issues also?

What do you think of Obama's speech?

2009-02-25T09:50:00.001-05:00

What do think of Obama's speech and the republican's response?

How do you go from Single to a relationship?

2009-02-24T07:40:00.002-05:00

It appears most of us on here have been single for a minute. I know the longer I stay single the more set in my ways I become. I have friends and do things without regards for anyone expect my children.

My question is how do you transition from single life to a relationship?

Do you let all your friends know I am dating now you can't call me at 2am. If yes how do we let others knows. What about the late night out with the fellas or hanging out every week. Do you send a mass email etc..

What are your thoughts?

Moving forwarded

2009-02-23T09:58:00.001-05:00

How to move on to your next steps in life.

I know sometimes that we all feel that way, like whats next for me. But how do you get to that point and how do know exactly what it is?

Freak or no freak

2009-02-20T17:40:00.001-05:00

Do you marry the freak or the good girl?

Why do you marry the good girl when your going to cheat with the freak?

What would you do?

2009-02-20T08:23:00.002-05:00

Would you date a person that was crazy in love, with someone that caused them to do crazy things. Example.. This man drove her to cut his clothes up. The woman drove him pour bleach on her bed. This person blames it being crazy in love.

Would you date this person?

Should I tell

2009-02-20T08:21:00.003-05:00

Just found out yesterday that my friend was cheating on his wife. Now this would be no problem with me or that big of deal if they both werent my closest friends. I just happned to luck up on this information. When I talk with him about it he explained to me that it wasnt my place to interfere but at the same time, she is my home girl....

Like if she knew that was happening to me she would tell me ya know.

I'm so lost as to what I should do with this information.

Slap somebody Day

2009-02-20T08:17:00.002-05:00

If you like myself and you have a little road rage. Or a little rage period. Today is your day.

IT'S NATIONAL SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF SOMEOBODY DAY !!!!!!!!

If there is anyone you want to or wish you would have slapped. Well today is your day to slapp them from Africa to America..

He only cheated once..

2009-02-18T12:10:00.002-05:00

My friend married her husband when they were 21. They have been together for 15 years. 3 Months ago she found out he cheated on her. Naturally she was distraught. Her 65yr old aunt told her she should have expected it, because they got married young. She also told her not to be too upset because her husband loved her and he only cheated once. Him cheating once in 15 years is good. He aunt revealed her husband of 30 years cheated only twice. She said sticking behind him and him seeing she was a good women is what helped their marriage stay strong. She said the women is the backbone of a marriage.

My question - If you have been with someone for a long time should you expect them to stray. (like the 5 or 7 year itch theory)

Do you think following advice of our elders, eventhough most of their advice may not the societal norms

Just talk about anything

2009-02-18T10:43:00.001-05:00

Please let us know what is on your mind.

Whats the longest you went without sex

2009-02-17T15:14:00.003-05:00

What is the longest you went without sex?

What did you do during this period, ex get to know yourself. Self evaluation?

How do you feel

2009-02-17T11:36:00.002-05:00

I was at a party the other night and this young lady come in and showed all the ladies her body suit. Now we were happy and amazed at this wonderful item. But the men where not so happy.

They stated that its really a lie for woman to walk around with all this stuff on to make us look better... One man stated that he knows that we arent 17 any more and that some people are going to have a roll or 2 so just live up to it... Kinda like what ya see is what ya get.... so he was like now when he goes out to the club he feels a lady up and dont to make sure that she isnt wearing a body shaper.

All the men felt like it was false advertisment. But I dont think its any different then anything else we do. weave nails and lashes I mean thats right there in ya face and most man dont have anything to say about that.

What do you guys think

The minimalist

2009-02-17T11:13:00.002-05:00

I have been taking a poll about the use of towels.

I heard that most men are minimalist people they dont care about the simple things like woman do like towels. So I asked some of the guys at my job about it. One guy stated that he has 1 towel that he using everyday and only gives it a wash on sunday. Another guy stated that he uses a towel 10-12 times before he will pick up a fresh one. Then aother guy stated that he only has 2 towel which he keeps in rotation.

Personally this is just nasty I feel that a person should get a new towel everyday and at least own 5 or more.

Most female say they own about 15-20 towels. Most men around 2.

So group I ask you how many towels do you own and how many time will you use it?

What is a real friend?

2009-02-16T09:03:00.000-05:00

What is a real friend?

I consider a friend to be someone you can discus personal or private things and know it will stay between each other.

If you shared information with a friend and they shared it with others. How would you feel? Would you keep this person as a friend?

Want or Needed

2009-02-13T12:23:00.001-05:00

No need to repeat. The questions remains.

Do you want to be considered a "want" to have or a "need" to have. Why?

Love and Compatibility

2009-02-13T12:19:00.001-05:00

“What does it really mean to be compatible and to complement your partner in 2009? Are there some specific areas that you and your partner must be compatible in? What are those areas and why are they so important? Is being sexually compatible the only thing that most men worry about? Are women too concerned with financial compatibility? Beyond the compatibility we desire in male / female relationships, what about the need we feel to be compatible with people we have to deal with everyday? Why do we pressure ourselves, feeling we have to make every person with whom we come into contact like us? How do we overcome our need to be liked and to complement everyone we meet?”

Love and Compatibility

2009-02-13T12:19:00.000-05:00

Do women balance men?

2009-02-13T12:17:00.001-05:00

They were discussing this on the radio this morning.

It was said that a woman balances a man. If the women is not balance then the relationship isn't balanced.

my coworker believes this and says if the man is not selfish then the woman will balance the relationship.

What are your thoughts?

The Dating Game

2009-02-12T10:51:00.002-05:00

Questions and answers came from essence mag. These are some of Steve Harvey's answer. What are your thoughts?

How does a women know a man's really digging her?
We show love toward our women by what I call the three P's profess, provide, protect...

How else does a man show love?
.. we will do our level best to make sure you gets what you want and what you need..

You have a chapter dedicated to the ladies who are single, independen and lonely, and you say it's not because men are intimidated?
Sometimes in an effort to show your independence, women kill one of the basic requirements that a man has: to provide. You have to let a man be a man.

I don't think a lot of women know how to do that anymore. Can you break it down for us?
Well, you keep trying to cover all bases so you can show a man that you don't need a man...

What would you say is the biggest mistakes women make when they're dating?
You have stopped setting standards...

I think women do have standards, but we think if we say, "I expect only this" no one will reach for our high bar?
..no matter how high your bar, when a man wants you, you can't get rid of him.

Do you think the majority of single men are still will to show some "act right" for a woman?
There are a lot of good men left. But there are a lot of men who don't have to be good men to get a women...

"Can a women really require a man to be a man?

Do successful sisters intimidate black men?

2009-02-11T07:36:00.001-05:00

Black men are often intimidated by black women with high-paying and successful careers because they want to play the role of protector, or because they do not want their girlfriend's career to come before them. Some men, such as Oprah Winfrey's companion Stedman Graham, have learned to cope with this intimidation.

What are you guys thoughts?

"Where have the black men gone?"

2009-02-11T07:35:00.001-05:00

It is an often repeated question these days among African-American ministers and scholars. In search of an answer, many are re-thinking the ways they try to interest men in Christian churches.

Personally I think that people are loosing there faith Christian, Catholic etc. I think most men like to believe in things were they can see instant result. They dont believe in this thing called faith and patience. Like most of America we believe in instant gratification.

Friends

2009-02-11T07:30:00.001-05:00

Do you agree with the statement " you should not have friends not equal to yourself"

Just some things on my mind (Ro-Ro)

2009-02-10T11:46:00.000-05:00

First of all I want to talk about the men today.

I need to understand why men( not all but we are talking about men from ATL) dont know how to take the lead and know how to treat a lady these days.

I was talking with one of my friends the other day and he made a comment like eva nice they let woman work and make there own money we became equals.

He stated that anything I can do so can she so he doesnt care for the whole men take out the trash women cook, he stated that the role should be equal across the board.

How do you guys feel about that statement?

Spending

2009-02-10T10:32:00.003-05:00

Tell me what do you guys think about spending these days. After reading all the stuff on CNN its like people arent really spending money everybody wants to save. But isnt that doing things wrong shouldnt we be spending so that we can keep people with jobs and keep the economy going?

I do my part everything I go have a drink and purchase something either a shirt or some pants on pay day..

What about you guys are you spending or trying to hold on to every penny you have?

Odd or not

2009-02-10T10:25:00.004-05:00

Would you think something was odd about a dude that only took a bath. Like he didnt really care for the showers?

Am I reading to deep into this issue or should he be looked upon with the side eye?

How to let a man lead

2009-02-10T10:25:00.001-05:00

I have a friend that doesn't know how to let a man be a man. She has an A type personality. When she meets a man, its in her nature to take charge and run the friendship this is before they are really dating. She will suggest where they should go, what they should do. She says she doesn't know how to tell a let a man lead.

Right or Wrong

2009-02-05T09:39:00.002-05:00

I have a friend that just got married which is a good thing. But now she is trying to change everything about him. Like she doesent want him going out with his friends and feels like they should spend every birthday holiday or whatever together.

All his boys feel like she is trying to pull him away from the group or that she doesnt like them. But my take on it is that she doesnt want him around people that wont keep his mind family focused and some of you know what im talking about.

Does she trust him yes but we know that men dont always make that right choices....

Would you

2009-02-05T09:37:00.000-05:00

If you mate came to you and told you that they wanted to purchase house and you didnt have the money. Would you ask all your closes friend to help you come up with a down payment?

My friend just told me this *hit today and I think that its really crazy but maybe im old school with. Like just save the money until I can do it on my own.

Tell me what you would do

What should I do?

2009-02-04T10:30:00.002-05:00

(excuse the mispellings. I didn't proof read)

I have a friend that is in the beginning stages of Domestic Violence. Her and her husband are separated, he decided to move out because things aren't working. Being she hasn't ran back to him and for the first time stood up and said no more. They both were wrong in that flirted with other people. When he did it, she had to be ok with it. When she did it, he made it as if the world has stopped.

Now he is trying to move back in, I suggested they stay in separate residences til they work out the issues. She would let he come over and see their daughter but he will decide he is stay and spend the night. I told her to stop allowing him to come over because he is doing it as a way of control. He would come over but tell her he is dealing with other women. (The mind control game). When she decided to stand up and stop allowing him to come and stay at will. He has gotten violent.

I have suggested she speak to someone, she doesn't want to. I have suggested she call the cops, she doesn't want to. I have given her the domestic abuse hotline. '

My questions should I say hey I have done my best and she is choosing not to listen and just step back?

What makes a good Kiss?

2009-02-03T09:51:00.001-05:00

What makes a good kiss?

Is bad kissing a deal breaker?

Birth Control

2009-02-02T10:04:00.002-05:00

My cousin was a teenage mother at the age of 15 she stated that when her child enters high school she is automatically going to put her on the pill. In some ways I feel that it is the wise things to do but on the other handle are you telling her that its ok to have sex?

Love and Relationship

2009-02-02T09:55:00.002-05:00

My friend stated that he doesnt want to be in a relationship. Meaning doesnt really want to be committed to anyone... but at the same time he has this one chick that he allows to come over to the house whenever she wants she cooks and cleans waits for him to come home at night around 3 in the morning just everything I think a girlfriend would do without the title.

Is he leading her on? even tho he tells her he isnt ready for a relationship but I feel that his actions are saying something different.

So do you go off of another person actions toward you or do you listen to what they tell you?

Thoughts

2009-02-02T09:46:00.001-05:00

Tell me what ya think....

Is it a bad idea to try and rekindle pass relationships?

Ex-boyfriend, Friendship whatever the case my be....

What can you tell by what a person drinks?

2009-01-30T14:27:00.002-05:00

They were debating about this on the radio yesterday.

A man drink drinking fruit drinks or out of a Martini glass looks femine.

A woman drinking out a beer bottle without a straw looks manish.

What are your thoughts?

What would you call it

2009-01-30T12:11:00.003-05:00

Do you think its ok to call the president by his first or last name only?

I was just thinking that's all.....

What do you get a women that has everything?

2009-01-30T08:59:00.002-05:00

I hear men complain all the time about how difficult it to buy their women gifts. After a few years of a relationship. You have purchased all the purfume, clothes, shoes and purses you can buy. What you don't get her she gets herself.

On the flip side women complain their man never knows what to get them.

What are your thoughts on that?

Could she be a freak too !!!

2009-01-30T08:41:00.002-05:00

My cousin is married and has a girlfriend. They have been together about 1yr. She knows about his wife. Me and his wife are cool considering they have been for 6years.

He is going out tonight and set me up on a blind date with his girlfriend's friend. I told him I'm not interested. My theory is his girlfriend doesn't have many morals. Her friend must not have morals either, Or they would be trying to double date.
Am I disqualifing what could be a good woman that just has a messed up friend?
What do you think?

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

2009-01-29T09:42:00.002-05:00

Do you feel that if you have been in a relationship for more then 3 years and marriage isnt part of the equation should you call it quites because where is it really heading are you just wasting your time? Couldnt that time and enegery be put into someone else that is ready to move forward.

Tell me what you think

2009-01-29T09:38:00.002-05:00

Once again I was seating around talking with a couple of friends the other night and my sista made and really odd comment...

She doesnt feel that she should be committed to anyone because they dont have a ring on her finger so until somebody steps up to the plate and really wants to make a real commitment she is still going to date other people beside her boyfriend..

Do you think thats a cool way to think nowadays, is this what most of us really feel deep down inside?

What to do for your man on valentine day?

2009-01-29T09:37:00.000-05:00

As if shopping for them on their birthdays or christmas wasn't hard enough, what do you get them for this day also? I guess it's pretty obvious now that this is my first valentine. What do you give? I have looked around and everything that companies make is more targeted towards women. Hope that it doesn't sound to crazy....

However, any opinions, besides sex I mean?

How to handle

2009-01-28T12:46:00.002-05:00

Ok my home girl just gave me a call listen to the story and tell me how you think she should handle it.

She just a phone call from her dude he states that he needs to stop by the house to drop off somethings. She like cool but you need to stop by the job so you can pick up the keys. His reply was oh I already have a key. brrrrrr..... (very confused)

This strikes her as odd because she never gave him a key....

So she was like a key and where did you get that from he was very casual and like oh I just got it off your other set of keys...

ummmmmmm now how would you feel about something like that.

Why do men think the way they do

2009-01-28T11:16:00.003-05:00

I dont know if we have been down this road before but I was talking with a friend last night and he made this comment.

"Having a girlfriend makes me love my wife more"

Can someone breakdown the logic on that one.....

So What Michelle didn't wear a Black designers dress

2009-01-28T09:21:00.003-05:00

Do you really care Michelle Obama didn't wear a black designers dress?

If you were in that position would you have worn what you like or took it as an opportunity to support black designers?

The Obama Factor

2009-01-28T09:21:00.001-05:00

What are your thoughts on this statement by Jeff Johnson.

... what makes the potential of President Obama different is that he will be in front of the world everyday as a reminder of what we can achieve. The global press will for once actually help the image of the Black male as they cover the White House. However, the President will be many brothers greatest nightmare too, if they choose to be raggedy because sisters will now have a new male model. No longer can a brother say “I was too busy” or “I worked too hard today,” because you already know if Barack could take Michelle to dinner they question becomes, “how come you can’t take me”…and if you President Obama could find time to be with the girls, “what are you doing that is so important?” His example will forever change how we view our potential and because of that,

Will you follow the dream

2009-01-21T08:55:00.002-05:00

Were you emotionally charged by having the first African American President?

Do you think the momentum will continue and people will change?

Finally Election Day is Here !!!

2009-01-20T09:33:00.001-05:00

Sound off about your feelings on the first African American President being sworn in today..

Men help Ladies and Ladies help men !

2009-01-16T09:49:00.004-05:00

These days everybody is coming out with a relationship book and call themselves keeping it real and helping the opposite sex.

Ladies what would you do if you were a man?

Fellas what woudl you do if you were a woman?

Worse Date

2009-01-16T09:49:00.001-05:00

Whats the worse date you had?

I'm tired of giving you advice !

2009-01-16T09:18:00.002-05:00

How long do you keep giving your friends advice and they continue to stay in the same situation.

Good friend of mines wife is cheating on him, it's obvious to me and him. Being he hasn't caught her he doesn't want to believe it. She treats him like trash and he is constantly coming to me for my advice and opinion. This is my homie, but I'm at the point where I am tried of giving him any info..

What are your thoughts... How long do you keep giving friends advice and they are making the same mistakes?

Life Changing experiences !!

2009-01-14T09:00:00.002-05:00

What has been the most life-changing experience you've ever had?

Auction off your body parts?

2009-01-14T08:37:00.003-05:00

I know we all heard about the college girl auctioning off her virginity. Which I think is crazy, give me someone experienced

If you had to auction off a part of your body what would it be and why?

Good Morning Happy Wednesday

2009-01-14T08:28:00.003-05:00

What helps get your day going?

Reading scriptures, exercising, road rage?

What is a freak ?

2009-01-09T08:56:00.001-05:00

GS and I were trying to define this question?

What does it mean with a man or women is a freak?

Speak your mind Friday

2009-01-09T08:32:00.000-05:00

Today free your mind about anything...

PORN

2009-01-08T11:58:00.000-05:00

Would you go over your girlfriend's sista house and order porn?

Would you order porn at any of your friends house?

Can they be friends?

2009-01-08T10:46:00.001-05:00

You meet a guy who is everything you ever wanted in a life-partner: funny, smart, great personality, laughs at your jokes, understands who you are as a human being, etc. You talk to him briefly, and find out that he is even more attractive now that you've spoken to him. You ask him out. You guys had a great time getting to know each other, talks on the phone everyday. Spending time with him is like being in heaven. He makes your toes curl, your stomach knot, and your mouth dry. Yet there is this nagging voice in the back of your mind that says you could be more than friends. You swear that you will tell him how you really feel. Right before you can do this, he tells you:

"I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS"

What do you do at this point? Do you tell him exactly how you feel or do you keep your feelings to yourself and stay friends?

Happy New Year !

2009-01-07T09:55:00.000-05:00

Good Morning All !

This should have been my post yesterday.

How was your New Year? What did you do? Let's here the good and the bad?

Presidential Inauguration

2009-01-06T11:44:00.002-05:00

Are you planning on making the trip to DC?

Will you watch at home or go to a public setting?

What do you think of all the places charging a fee to watch this historical event?

Questions if your thinking about marriage!

2009-01-06T10:55:00.002-05:00

What do you expect your marriage and standard of living to be like after five years?

How long after marriage will you begin having children and how many?

What would you do if you cannot conceive children of your own?

How often do you expect to have sex?

Happy New Year !!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS

2008-12-24T10:58:00.000-05:00

Just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas please be safe and remember the reason for the season.

Do you have with cheaters?

2008-12-22T08:38:00.000-05:00

Would you continue to hang and trust a friend who is unfaithful to their wife or husband?

Fun Poem

2008-12-19T08:19:00.002-05:00

Let's see how creative we can be.. Add a line or two to this poem?

I’m in a place
With a familiar face

What is your biggest PET Peeve?

2008-12-19T08:13:00.002-05:00

What is one or two things that just gets on your nerves?

Drives you crazy makes you want to scream?

Have you texted someone by accident?

2008-12-19T08:11:00.000-05:00

Have you every sent a text to the wrong person?

What was the text? hmmmm!!!!

Positive Relationships

2008-12-18T10:42:00.001-05:00

Do you know of any positive and successful relationships that give you hope that lasting marriages still exist?

People Speak

Insight

Swingers

Titles

What did your parents tell you about sex?

Teens and Vibrators

Should the man pay for everything

Man dont wanna get married

Should people change you

Teaching Fellas how to prevent women stalkers

Equally Yoked

Name a Song that describe your life

Would you force your son's baby mother to have a DNA test?

HAPPY FRIDAY !

IS GOD WORKING ON YOU?

You GO to BED when I GO to BED!!!

Are you will will to carry his/her debt?

Who taught you about SEX?

What did you think of the President's Speech

What would you do?

First Crush

Purpose Driven life

Describe your SOUL MATE.

Give me your advice

Finish the sentence.. Life is worth living....

Do you want or need a mate?

What makes a man/woman fall in love and stay in love

Clingy or I enjoy your conversation?

How do you leave a person that loves you?

What have you done to get your way?

Yelp!!!!!!!!

Compatibility

I was just people watching today....

Thoughtful or a Bug-a-Boo

What does your desires say about you?

Makes me want to holla !!!

What do you think of Obama's speech?

How do you go from Single to a relationship?

Moving forwarded

Freak or no freak

What would you do?

Should I tell

Slap somebody Day

He only cheated once..

Just talk about anything

Whats the longest you went without sex

More personal hygiene questions

How do you feel

The minimalist

What is a real friend?

Want or Needed

Love and Compatibility

Love and Compatibility

Do women balance men?

The Dating Game

Do successful sisters intimidate black men?

"Where have the black men gone?"

Friends

Just some things on my mind (Ro-Ro)

Spending

Odd or not

How to let a man lead

Right or Wrong

Would you

What should I do?

What makes a good Kiss?

Birth Control

Love and Relationship

Thoughts

What can you tell by what a person drinks?

What would you call it

What do you get a women that has everything?

Could she be a freak too !!!

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

Tell me what you think

What to do for your man on valentine day?

How to handle

Why do men think the way they do

So What Michelle didn't wear a Black designers dress

The Obama Factor